LeadMeNot is a digital wellness and accountability platform from CJ2 Solutions, LLC for people who want lasting boundaries around explicit content, social media, gambling, and other distracting habits.^1^4 It helps users block apps, websites, and keywords, and stay connected to trusted partners who walk with them.^1
Users set custom blocking rules, daily limits, and smart schedules, and can require a partner's approval through Safety Checks before loosening protections.^2 Real-time partner alerts, daily reflection and journaling, and intentional interruptions that redirect users when a boundary is crossed support follow-through.^2 Recent App Store notes add VPN-powered website protection, digital gambling blocking, and custom keyword blocking for Safari.^4 Native apps cover iPhone and iPad, Android, Windows, and Mac, with a Chrome extension for Chromebooks.^7 Parents can monitor family devices, block categories or apps, and set screen time limits by device or time of day.^5 Churches can recommend it through men's and women's ministries, counseling, and marriage prep.^6 It is free to download and subscription-based, with plans by number of devices and organizational options for churches, schools, and employers.^8
Jason Mathew founded the company and serves as chief executive; Vijay Singh is chief design officer.^3 Mathew, a former IBM product manager who moved from Austin to Tulsa, started LeadMeNot after his own struggle beginning in 2018, when he used dating apps to fill a void.^10 In his words: "I created LeadMeNot because I've realized that it's not just online dating that can lead to destruction, unhealthy digital habits can take MANY forms."^10
"Customizable accountability software, tailored filters, promotes digital health" - Brian Wolf^1
Notable:
- YouVersion lists LeadMeNot as a partner organization, describing its tools as helping people resist unwanted content and build healthier habits.^9
- The site's trusted-partners row includes Pure Desire Ministries, The Freedom Group, Exodus Cry, Samson Society, Katharos, Solid Ground Church Dayton, and several Christian colleges.^1
